My friends are either really poor or really rich - and i cant hang out with either?

I see where you are coming from. It is difficult when you are in a situation where nothing seems to fit. Personally, I would set my sights towards hanging out with people who fall in line with my economic status. I have been there before where either my associates were seriously dirt poor or had mom and day buy them a brand new BMW for graduation. I basically had to get in where I fit in and that took a little bit of time and maturation...I had to get to the point where I was absolutely tired of it, then eventually I sought out other people, places and things that were more suitable for my lifestyle and social needs. You will get there, it is just a matter of time.